When I arrived home this evening, dragging my feet behind me, I was greeted with a Christmas tree newly erected. The cat wasn’t to bothered by my appearance or the tree but it was a welcome sight that immediately helped to sooth my aching bones.
The tree is a sure sign that the Christmas spirit is entertaining our house, punctuated by the fact I only have a few more days to work until I leave my present job.
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A friend just sent me a photo of him standing, drink in hand (Manhattan), next to an aluminum pole. He was wearing a Festivus for the Restofus shirt. I wish I could send the image. You need to have watched Seinfeld to know the meaning of the pole.
Your tree looks lots more festive. The lights sooth somehow. I have two fake trees in a covered porch room year round, decked with white fairy lights and souvenirs I’ve brought back from travels. In a Dickens sense, it remains me to honor the spirit of the season year round. You have a lovely family. Happy holidays and good vibes year round!
Thanks Jo, I’m not familiar with Seinfeld but I’ll have a look to understand what you mean 👍 A Christmas Tree gives any room a warm festive feeling. Hope you and yours have a great Christmas and new year 🎁🎁🎁
Festivus for the rest of us was a gag, and a plain ol aluminum pole that the Jewish dad of George, Jerry Seinfeld’s sidekick, introduced…quite drole though in general I wasn’t a big fan of the TV show. Cheers!
Hi John,
A Seinfeld addict here. I totally get the humor. Being a native New Yorker helps me find even more humor from the show. You recently liked my article “NAME THAT STENCH: My Family’s Epic Minivan Game” posted on Little Old Lady Comedy. Thanks.
If you liked that, you’ll love my ludicrous, non-political blog: RandomThoughtsFromtheManCave.com. A recent article, AN EMOTIONAL GOODBYE TO MY MECAHNICAL MISTRESS, THE FAMILY MINIVAN, is very similar.
Stay well
Yes. My manager asked me to work my notice because people who leave the place were I work just up and leave without any warning. I’ve given them 2 months to find someone to replace me.
I think I’ll start the new job early January.
I thought it was two weeks, but I guess that is in America. In Denmark it is one month. In Germany it is THREE months, but both ways. They try, of course to avoid that by making people work on time limited contracts.
I can’t believe your cat could care less about your beautiful tree. I wouldn’t either with a cool bed like that. I need to get a cat bed like that for our cats. They are stalking our tree all the time now, waiting for the perfect time when we aren’t looking to take that tree down.
Thanks mate 👍 Day off today, work Tomorrow, 2 days off, work Saturday Sunday and then I’m leaving my place of work. Taking Christmas and new year off for the 1st time in years. It’ll be a bright yule after Sunday mate 👍👍
Wow, we in the US seem to have the least amount of time required to give management when leaving a job. Two weeks seems very paltry in the face of you guys’ one month, two months, three months. Ah, well.
Hey! We have that exact same stand, and I think it’s the exact same-sized tree. It’s not real, right?
Do you have an Ikea near you, by any chance? lol ! !
Sorry–we’re probably not supposed to speak about “fake’ trees out loud, huh? But they look just as good, and they don’t die!
Our lights are very similar, John! But they’re white instead of gold. We’re not putting our tree up this year, tho. We decided not to celebrate x-mas this year. Well…just by drinking rum-laced eggnog with whipped cream in it.
BTW, just for the record, we haven’t been to Ikea for at least a decade.
Don’t want everybody thinking we jog over there every weekend and contribute to the Ikea family’s yachts and mansions strewn all across Sweden!
Just for the record, there are 2 ikea stores within 15 miles of my house and the ONLY time I agree to go there is to munch on their meatballs and slurp some never ending ice cream.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 really 🤣🤣 sorry, it’s not funny. You know what, my cat moved himself into my house during the summer about 4 years ago and he’s never done that. He sleeps and eats and likes a stroke but goes out to do his business.
This picture made ME feel warm inside. ❤
I am struggling to find my Christmas spirit this year…. so last night I watched Home Alone 2, and woke up singing carols this morning…. it's slowly but surely finding me 😉
I love the first one too…. but I do NOT love that spider, ha ha ha!
There is something about the second one though… the old lady living in the park with her birds…. forgotten and broken hearted.
The gift of the turtle doves? A promise of love… and to remember… it makes me sob every time. And it stirs my Christmas spirit 😉 ❤
It was quite most of the time but it was nice thank you 😊 I kind of miss my old job. Probably because I haven’t started my new one yet 🤣 But thank you. Hope yours was enjoyable
Right now, I feel exhausted from dragging out all the Christmas decorations and putting them up by myself. My husband never gets involved with the whole thing but likes to sit back and laugh at me. Your photo looked so beautiful, calm, and soothing, I envied you that someone else put it up for you!
A friend just sent me a photo of him standing, drink in hand (Manhattan), next to an aluminum pole. He was wearing a Festivus for the Restofus shirt. I wish I could send the image. You need to have watched Seinfeld to know the meaning of the pole.
Your tree looks lots more festive. The lights sooth somehow. I have two fake trees in a covered porch room year round, decked with white fairy lights and souvenirs I’ve brought back from travels. In a Dickens sense, it remains me to honor the spirit of the season year round. You have a lovely family. Happy holidays and good vibes year round!
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Thanks Jo, I’m not familiar with Seinfeld but I’ll have a look to understand what you mean 👍 A Christmas Tree gives any room a warm festive feeling. Hope you and yours have a great Christmas and new year 🎁🎁🎁
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Festivus for the rest of us was a gag, and a plain ol aluminum pole that the Jewish dad of George, Jerry Seinfeld’s sidekick, introduced…quite drole though in general I wasn’t a big fan of the TV show. Cheers!
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Hi John,
A Seinfeld addict here. I totally get the humor. Being a native New Yorker helps me find even more humor from the show. You recently liked my article “NAME THAT STENCH: My Family’s Epic Minivan Game” posted on Little Old Lady Comedy. Thanks.
If you liked that, you’ll love my ludicrous, non-political blog: RandomThoughtsFromtheManCave.com. A recent article, AN EMOTIONAL GOODBYE TO MY MECAHNICAL MISTRESS, THE FAMILY MINIVAN, is very similar.
Stay well
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Ok Kevin. Maybe I should become a new Yorker 🤣 I’ll take a look your blog mate 👍👍
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Oh, you did not start the new job yet. Is it in the new year then? I guess, you had to give them a notice period …
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Yes. My manager asked me to work my notice because people who leave the place were I work just up and leave without any warning. I’ve given them 2 months to find someone to replace me.
I think I’ll start the new job early January.
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I thought it was two weeks, but I guess that is in America. In Denmark it is one month. In Germany it is THREE months, but both ways. They try, of course to avoid that by making people work on time limited contracts.
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Ahhhhhh that very different. Where I work it’s 4 weeks notice but I gave them plenty of time.
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Congrats on the new job… I’m wishing to be able to say this too, sometime sooner. 🌺
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Thanks Kavitha, and I hope you get the job you want very soon 😊
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I’m praying. Its been an awful year. Thank you. 🌺
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May the new year bring health and peace and normalcy to all of us. Enjoy your holidays! 🙂
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Let’s hope so Cheryl 😊 I wish that you have a lovely Christmas and new year 😊👍
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The cat is so cute!
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Yea, Chocolate white (Cat) is a handsome little chap 😊
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Love your kitty house. MERRY CHRISTMAS!
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Thanks Arlene, merry Christmas to you luv 😊
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I can’t believe your cat could care less about your beautiful tree. I wouldn’t either with a cool bed like that. I need to get a cat bed like that for our cats. They are stalking our tree all the time now, waiting for the perfect time when we aren’t looking to take that tree down.
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Haha he’s an unusual cat. Apparently he kept an eye on the tree as it was going up, took a sniff of a branch and went out for a walk.
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It looks very nice and cosy.
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It does mate. Nice to see it when I walked into the room.
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Good to know, John
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Thanks Derrick, it’s a relief to be coming to the end of my job there but also a little sad. The Christmas tree put a smile on my face
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You have to have mixed feelings.
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Very much so Derrick. It’s bittersweet really but eventually, everything changes.
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Indeed
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Merry Christmas boss.
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Merry Christmas Jim. Hope you have a great one buddy
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Happy days John. May your Yule log be bright and log.
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Thanks mate 👍 Day off today, work Tomorrow, 2 days off, work Saturday Sunday and then I’m leaving my place of work. Taking Christmas and new year off for the 1st time in years. It’ll be a bright yule after Sunday mate 👍👍
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Wow, we in the US seem to have the least amount of time required to give management when leaving a job. Two weeks seems very paltry in the face of you guys’ one month, two months, three months. Ah, well.
Hey! We have that exact same stand, and I think it’s the exact same-sized tree. It’s not real, right?
Do you have an Ikea near you, by any chance? lol ! !
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Uhhhhhhhhhhh hum. (Clears throat) Said tree is not real. Said tree was not from IKEA. Do you have the exact same fairy lights to ? 🤣🤣
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Sorry–we’re probably not supposed to speak about “fake’ trees out loud, huh? But they look just as good, and they don’t die!
Our lights are very similar, John! But they’re white instead of gold. We’re not putting our tree up this year, tho. We decided not to celebrate x-mas this year. Well…just by drinking rum-laced eggnog with whipped cream in it.
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Ok. Well your way of celebrating Christmas sound like my cup of eggnog
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Fake trees are IN 🤣🤣 I read it on google 😎🤪
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Yes! And Google knows all! LOL
BTW, just for the record, we haven’t been to Ikea for at least a decade.
Don’t want everybody thinking we jog over there every weekend and contribute to the Ikea family’s yachts and mansions strewn all across Sweden!
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Ohhhhh yessssss youuuuuu doooooo 🤣
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LMAO
Nooooooo! Weeee haaaaae nooooot !!! It’s been a decade and a half, even, I think!
But the meatballs–you just reminded me! LOVE THEM ! ! !
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Ok…. I believe you 😎🤪
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Just for the record, there are 2 ikea stores within 15 miles of my house and the ONLY time I agree to go there is to munch on their meatballs and slurp some never ending ice cream.
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It looks wonderful … would cheer me up as well after a long working day ❄️⛄️💜❄️😍
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Thank you Vicky, it really did make me feel better. The stress of the day melted away 😊👍
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Happy Holidays
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Thank you love, happy holidays to you 😊
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It is perfect! One of my old cats used to pee in the snow at the bottom of the tree…
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 really 🤣🤣 sorry, it’s not funny. You know what, my cat moved himself into my house during the summer about 4 years ago and he’s never done that. He sleeps and eats and likes a stroke but goes out to do his business.
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The many other deceased cats have taken the tree down, broken most of the ornaments and disrespected the spirit of Xmas! You have a good cat!
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I think I do have a very good cat 😊
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It’s beautiful ❤️
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Thank you very much Andrada 😊👍
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Beautiful Christmas tree !!!
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Thank you Mizou 👍👍
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👍👍
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Well, I’m happy for you!
Have a nice day, I hope it’s not too tiring 🙂
How cute is your cat 🙂
Ciao, Monica
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Thanks Monica, my cat is a real cutie but very stubborn 🤣 hope you have a lovely day 😊😉
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🙂
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Merry Christmas to you and Families from us to you dear friend ❤❤❤❤❤💫🕊🕊🕊💫💫🕊
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This picture made ME feel warm inside. ❤
I am struggling to find my Christmas spirit this year…. so last night I watched Home Alone 2, and woke up singing carols this morning…. it's slowly but surely finding me 😉
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Hey, believe this or not, I watched Home Alone, the first one on Friday night 😊
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I love the first one too…. but I do NOT love that spider, ha ha ha!
There is something about the second one though… the old lady living in the park with her birds…. forgotten and broken hearted.
The gift of the turtle doves? A promise of love… and to remember… it makes me sob every time. And it stirs my Christmas spirit 😉 ❤
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Yea, the bird lady is probably the most poignant person in the movie. The movies give a great start to Christmas 😊♥️
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That’s for sure ❤
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Amply sufficient grounds for wishing you a peaceful and happy Christmas, John! Enjoy!
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Thank you Fred, have a great Christmas my friend. 👍😊
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Merry Christmas
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Have a lovely Christmas my friend 👍🎁🎁
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Beautiful
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Hope you had a wonderful holiday and are enjoying yourself now that your old job has ended.
Thanks for following my blog, I appreciate it!
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It was quite most of the time but it was nice thank you 😊 I kind of miss my old job. Probably because I haven’t started my new one yet 🤣 But thank you. Hope yours was enjoyable
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Do you still celebrate Christmas?
if so why?
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For the kids. What a bizarre question
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For the children. What a bizarre question
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Why is it Bizarre.
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so pretty! time pass by so soon…
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It definitely passes to quickly. I can’t believe it February already 😊
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Brilliant blog…
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Thank you Patty 😊 appreciated. Sorry for the late reply, I’ve been busy with work.
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Right now, I feel exhausted from dragging out all the Christmas decorations and putting them up by myself. My husband never gets involved with the whole thing but likes to sit back and laugh at me. Your photo looked so beautiful, calm, and soothing, I envied you that someone else put it up for you!
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That was last Christmas. It was so nice to walk into the room and see it.
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